Jamie Otis.Photo: Taylor Hill/Getty

Jamie Otis attends the 2019 A+E Upfront at Jazz at Lincoln Center on March 27, 2019 in New York City

Jamie Otishas no time for mom shamers.

On Monday, theMarried at First Sightalum clapped back at an Instagram follower who direct messaged her asking why her daughterHenley Grace, 2, had not yet been potty trained. (Otis, 33, had originally posted an Instagram Story video of Henley playing with her mom’s makeup.)

“So clever,” the Instagram user responded to the makeup clip. “And yet not potty trained?”

In a follow-up Instagram Story, the former reality star shared a screen grab of the message and added an eye-roll emoji, writing, “Really?!”

“I’m not sure if I should explain myself — I’ve tried TWICE & ‘failed’?? or if I should just scream fuxidnd [sic] you, too!!!” wrote Otis,who is currently expecting a son. “Mommy shamers are the WORST.”

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Jamie Otis’ daughter Henley.Jamie Otis/Instagram

Jamie Otis daughter

Jamie Otis’ Instagram Story.

Jamie Otis daughter

“I just have to show you. Last time I was in L.A., I had no bump and now I have a really, really big one,” she said in the video. “And I absolutely love, love, love every second of it. It’s the best.”

The two previously lost sonJohnathan Edwardat 17 weeks gestation. Then in August 2017, they welcomed daughter Henley. Otis went on to suffera chemical pregnancyin 2018, and amiscarriage at 10 weeksalong in January 2019.

Jamie Otis.Jamie Otis/Instagram

Jamie Otis

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source: people.com